Hey there, I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart - including kids in weddings. Because let's face it, weddings are about more than just two people coming together. They're about families joining forces and building a life together. So, if you're planning your big day and have little ones in your life, buckle up and get ready for some heart-warming and creative ideas to include them in your ceremony.
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Let's start with the classics, shall we?
#1 Family Vows:
One of the most beautiful ways to include your kids in your ceremony is by having them be a part of your vows. Create individual vows to your children, expressing your love and commitment to them. Trust me, watching you exchange words of love and devotion with their little hearts in mind will be a moment they'll never forget. Cue the happy tears!
#2 Flower Children:
Flower girls and ring bearers are already adorable, but how about taking it up a notch? Include the kids in your family beyond the traditional roles by adding them as 'flower children' too. Encourage them to toss petals down the aisle and share in the joy and excitement. Double the cuteness, double the fun! This could also be done with bubbles!
Now, let's get a little more creative, shall we?
#3 Family Sand Ceremony:
A Family Sand Ceremony is a wonderful way to symbolise the joining of two families or a family as a whole. Each family member pours a different sand into a single container, creating a beautiful visual representation of each member intertwining to form one. It's like a sandcastle of love and togetherness, a moment to cherish for a lifetime.
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#4 Walk Down the Aisle Together:
Why not walk down the aisle together if you have kids? Let your little ones join you in the celebration of love and commitment. They'll be overjoyed and feel so special to be a part of one of the most magical moments of your life. Plus, it makes for some seriously adorable pictures!
#5 Prayer Circle:
Gather your family for a heartfelt prayer circle to mark the start of your new life together. Hold hands, say prayers, or share meaningful thoughts, and feel the love and support of your family surrounding you. It's a powerful and emotional moment that brings you all closer together.
#6 Ribbon Unity Ceremony:
Imagine this: as the ceremony unfolds, there's a beautiful ribbon, representing the bond between the couple and their kids, waiting to be woven together. Each family member holds a section of the ribbon, symbolising their unique role in this union. Together, you intertwine the ribbons, creating a stunning visual representation of your family's love and togetherness. It's a magical way to show the world that your love knows no bounds.
#7 Special Piece of Jewellery:
Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a sucker for sentimental gestures, especially when they involve jewellery! Just before exchanging your vows, you and your partner present each child with a special piece of jewellery. It could be a necklace, a bracelet, or even a locket that holds a cherished photo or message. This act not only symbolises acceptance and love but also lets the kids know that they hold a special place in your hearts. Cue the happy tears!
These are just seven out of countless ways you can involve your kids in your wedding ceremony. The most important thing is to be creative and true to your family's style. After all, your wedding day is a celebration of the love and connections you share, and that includes all the little ones too.
So go ahead, let the creativity flow and have fun with it! Make your wedding day the ultimate celebration of love, family, and unique connections. And hey, if you ever need more ideas or a shoulder to lean on during this exciting journey, I'm always here for you.
xoxo Laura
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